your husband actually speaks to the seller. not so with the scammer. your husband doesn't say he'll send a bank check - he's willing to pay in cash up front. not true of scammers. your dh doesn't make excuses for not being able to pick stuff up himself, and say he'll send his movers. can dh call a telephone # ? also why would anyone need all that personal info? if he wants to really buy, all he needs is your phone # to begin the sale. then, the address if it sounds real.