My suggestions is to wait till after the wedding and include a wedding picture and make a family tree wall hanging. Or if you want it done for the wedding make a signature quilt so everyone that goes to the wedding signs it. Can use any star block pattern with the center of the star cream or white so everyone can sign it. I made one for my daughter's high school graduation and she also had her college friends sign it. Any other questions I'd be happy to reply. Bernadette