It takes me forever to get a quilt done also. I run a business, take care of my DGS, run the house, etc. etc. I'm hoping Congress will lengthen the day to 36 hours. Then maybe I can find some sewing time! Until then, I just roll with it. You've suffered a great loss, so it's natural to find it difficult to concentrate on things. If I'm not mistaken, you run a business as well. Be easy on yourself and just take one day at a time. Sometimes, when I see the amount of quilts some of the other board members turn out I feel like a slacker, but we all have different life-styles and I've learned to enjoy the journey of making the quilt and not to fret over the finishing of it. It will get done when it gets done - or not! Que sera, sera!