For several years now I have been somewhat in your shoes, my husband died, had to move in with family, no privacy, no space having to buy more sewing notions, parts of quilts in different places (love BOM's). Now I have managed to get my room together have finished two quilts for great-grandchildren another for Christmas plus numerous special quilted pillowcases. All I have learned is that UFO's are with us all, when times are harsh sew what you want not what you think you should. Sewing what you feel like brings back the joy of sewing.