Beautiful quilts---just be there for him. He will need you through the years but especially if the parents do not get along. My grandaughter is in the same thing and is now 14 years old---she says she has us to thank for being there when her parents were not and when things got crazy. I used almost the exact same words plus I was not going to let her so called father stand between me and my grandchild to my husband the week before she was born. She is the light of our lives and neither her PaPaw or me would know what to do without her.