There are just to many fabrics and patterns out there. When I started out about 30 years ago, I bought fabric for a specific quilt and made it. But over the years (some that I didn't sew at all) I have accumulated fabric, books, patterns etc. I agree with the person that said, it will take a while to get back to normal from any sad event. I have tried toi make my self finish my UFO's but I always get sidetracked. I have some quilt tops that are 15-20 tears old. I now have three active quilts going, which I have decided was not a good idea. Now I am chompin' at the bit to do a "one block quilt", it is endless. Just enjoy!