She sounds very immature. Just go ahead and make what you want for the baby, she will be glad she has a second quilt the first time the new born baby has a new born baby middle of the night potty accident. Remember those, where everything gets coated with slime....ugh and all you want is something clean and soft to wrap the baby in,,and not get it all over yourself...I remember those nights..I never took my baby out in their crib blankets, so you need several blankets..she will learn...