you know she is going to find it's nice to have more than one quilt for the nursery...if you make one it will get used. kind of funny, the quilt that lived on my bed was from Pottery Barn...for about 5 years i made a couple hundred quilts, every one in my family and my dh's family all had quilts i made...just didn't get around to making one for us...(kind a like the mechanic with the broken car in the yard) i can finally say yes, i made the quilt on the bed...in fact, now i've made 2 just for us :)
i know people who say they'd rather have a store bought one, i've never had someone turn one down though, or not use it once they have it.