Karla congrats on your son and soon to be dil and their amazing and wise decisions!! To know the marriage is more important then the wedding was our mantra too. Everything, including our honeymoon was much cheaper then what most pay and we got to enjoy ourselves so much more by not having to worry about the crazy bridezilla things like if the doves were delivered or the $10,000 dress was fitted correctly :) I'll have to post some pics on my diary thread one day soon.....anyhoodles congrats on doing a lovely do-it-yourself wedding!! they'll love it!! Are they doing pre-marital counseling?? I would suggest it....we definitely learned a lot from it!!!