If I could change anything, I would have spent more time just having fun with my kids instead of wearing myself out and spending that time trying to have the cleanest house, and proving I was the best housekeeper/wife in the neighborhood. When I was young, a woman's esteeme was wrapped up in these things. I watched my daughter spend what time she had doing fun things with her kids and I envied her. She didn't have that much free time as she was a teacher and four little ones close together. Other than that, my life has been wonderful and I wouldn't change that.