I think that sometimes things I say I mean one way and someone could take it entirely different. It was kind of like my husband when he was preaching every sunday and on saturday nighy when he was getting ready for the next day, and he wouldn't be happy wwith his sermon, and guess what? three people would tell him on the way out of church, Oh, Pastor that sermon today was wonderful, it was meant just for me. So what I am saying, we don't all hear or read the way somethings are written or spoken. maybe.