hey pam it doesnt have to have testicles to forget those things my SIL lives with us and she is just as bad as the men in this house. after 25 years of being the only woman in a house of boys (men?) when she moved in i thought at least i wont have to pick up after her boy was i wrong! crumbs on the toaster not putting things back mat on the floor shower curtain open newspaper not thrown away just stupid little things but it drives me nuts~ whew that feels better! lol