There is some great comments about responses to posts, the so called quilt police etc on the site this morning. General tone is more how something is said rather than what is said in response. Let me ask this question.
What kind or nature of post gives one the most negative feelings. Some have the nature of having a fine line between nagative or constructive. negative tone vs constructive.
O hope I am phrasing this correctly. It appears to me that a conversation on this subject might help those asking the question in better phrasing their question and certainly those wishing to answer to better phrase their answer to be more constructive rather than desctructive.