I have a theory about speaking my mind whether on this board or anywhere in life :
It's not WHAT you say but rather HOW you say it. Anything said with kindness and genuine helpfulness is okay in my book! If someone doesn't like what another says I feel the problem is theirs. They don't have to internalize something just b/c someone said something! I personally haven't seen any negative comments on this board yet but if I ask for an honest opinion on something I want honesty. That's what I do when I respond to what-do-you-think questions.
I actually see a lot of cheer-leading on this board! Makes me happy b/c we all love quilting and want to keep it going !