Camping trips for us have an already agreed upon set of rules. Don't ask me to do anything at the dumpstation, or unhook the 5th wheel, or pack the "basement" of the 5th wheel, or winterize, or fill water tank, or check maintenance on any part of camper. And I will not LET you decide what goes into the camper: food, clothing, bedding, etc. and I will haul it out there myself just to make sure it really gets loaded. I am willing to drive and even back into campsites or help him back into campsites. And I am the navigator, and planner. Am I a control nut? Perhaps. But I absolutely hate dumpstations.
This has worked very well for us for nearly 40 years. :thumbup: