Hey, everyone - I found it! I did rewrite it on index cards and put it in the "Dessert" section of one of my recipe boxes. The yellow legal-pad paper is long gone! I'm going to rewrite it 2 more times so I have it under "Yeast Breads" and under "Cakes", so no matter where I look for it, I'll find it!
Incidentally, it is almost exactly like the recipes all of you have suggested, so that if I had not found mine, any of the ones you found for me would have worked. (Mine DOES have the 1/8 teaspoon of baking soda in it - so much for my memory!)
Thank all of you so much for your willingness to help. That's what I love about this board. Perfect strangers from all over creation come together to help one person, or even just to make a comment about something going on in your life. Makes me feel like I've made new friends just sitting here all by myself just typing and saying hello.
Thanks again. Hope everyone has a great Memorial Day with family and friends.