You have just put my life into words. DH has had all sorts of serious health problems during the last 30 yrs. But 5 years ago it became more serious... doctors, hospitals, meds. I went out and bought a new Elna (my old Singer wasn't working right) and decided now is the time to start quilting. It de-stressed me, especially the handquilting, quiet time and prayer.
I kept my sanity and DH is soooo much better. And now I have a very creative hobby, ummm, addiction. :-D