When my daughter was a teen, I was considered the 2nd toughest parent in town... I would not replace the Ipod. I would have her earn the money to replace it herself. Of course the money would still be come'n from me, but she'd learn a valuable lesson. I'd pay her at least minimum wage and have her mow the lawn, list of daily chores, baby sitting, what ever it takes. If she wants the Ipod bad enough, she'll be willing to do what ever it takes. Oh and don't give her the Ipod then expect her to do the work... that soooo doesn't work & all you'll be is aggrevated. Pay as she does the work, let her see how long it takes to save the $$$ If she accomplishes the chores without giving you major grief, throw in a few exta bonus bucks :)