Lisa, I know I'm old, but in the early 60's when I was in 1st grade, there was 1 teacher per classroom and 30+ kids in that classroom. No aids, no nothing...I learned to read, so did your parents.
I was very active at school, when my boys were growing up. I held every office in the PTA and then some. So I do understand your dilemma.
OK, I'm off my soapbox, too.