thank you , I love cats too, have 3 of them and 2 dogs. You would be suprised at how many young children have lost their lives, I belong to a grief chat group and visit them on tuesdays. the site is called compassionate friends, and I really don't know if I could have survived this tradgey if it weren't for them. I have always been sarcastic in a funny way and I warm up to people easily. I can tell if I'm going to like this person right from the start. very nice talking to you. hugs, Marilyn, kirksmom