You're right to walk away from it for a day & decide what to do with it. Definitely finish it is the decision, right??? Our seam rippers are our closest friend so name her and tell her come on let's go to work. Eat some chocolate, drink a cup of tea(water, coffee, soda, or something strong in it,lol!!), turn on some music and solve your dilemna. Please post pics so we can see what you're doing wrong. You'll have a gorgeous quilt when it's finished & we're all anxiously waiting to see it.