I want to thank everyone from the bottom of my heart for your caring words. We have researched alot of information that we have received other the years. Alot of help is based on the salary of the parents, because my husband and I both work and our son can hold a job, according to the experts, doesn't make a difference that he can go haywire at the drop of a hat and has not kept a job longer than 6 months at a time, we make to much money for assistance. I am a bus driver and my husband is a mechanic. That's the goverment for ya. Thank you again.