i sorry you was hurt i didn't know my dad but my step father i made him a navjo afhgan lost the pattern so he would measure it every time i went over with it and said it was not big enough when i finally found my pattern notice it was bigger then it should be after i got it done he put it on his bed said perfect it fit the end of the bed to the middle of the pillow my mom was mad cause his was bigger then hers but when he pass it went with him i did make my first quilt to mom and she love it and they put it with her . but when my sister saw mine i did for mom she said were she live they do better quilting then i do i told her that was my first one so i know people can say something that can hurt you just know we all think it good