Ouch! I haven't read through all the pages but I just had to respond. {{{{{hugs}}}}} Sometimes people can be mean and cruel without ever realizing it. My suggestion, trade him for something he likes and keep this for yourself. I gave away everything I made for the first few years and I sure wish I had the very first thing I made. Your father may not appreciate it but I bet it would look great hanging up in your home!
And amazing work for your first quilt! Holy smokes, you go girl!!!!