there are no stupid questions. and we are all here to hear the truth about how good we really are. We all say what we think with love and a helping heart. No one but admin here are police. and they just to help keep it clean. hehe. they are the broom for the board. sweeping away all the bad stuff. which is good because that means that we can talk with out getting all those annoying advertising posts for things i don't want on my computer screen. (blushes at the thought)