Do you think that he could have been teasing/kidding you?? And you overeacted???
If he was serious, and you'd be the one to know, I'm very sorry for you. My DH loves bright colors and I don't so when I show him something he always suggests that I use brghter fabrics and if I don't he gets his feelings hurt. Says I never take his suggestions seriously.
So, you see, they all have their little quirks. Keep on making qults and make Yourself happy.
Piecefully, Kutnso