I am sorry he said such a thoughtless thing to you. I know my husband sometimes feels a little neglected when I am busy with quilting. Maybe this was the case for your husband also. If he is generally considerate of your feelings I would say give him the benefit of the doubt, take some time to cool off and then let it go. I agree with otheres that you should not work on his man quilt when you are upset; don't want bad karma sewn in!