Glad to hear your hubby is in the positive mode. I can't tell you how much that goes towards healing. Doc always told me, you don't have time to be negitive and you sure don't have the time to be around anyone that's negitive. I agree, 100%. With my Doc's, they never knew what I was going to come up with next. I would write little notes on the parts of the body they would be checking that day. I was always joking and laughing, in between being sick, and I never, never, let the big C get in my way. I have way too much to do, and way too many things I want to do before I throw in the towel.
My first cancer was 8 yrs ago, second, 5 yrs ago and the last one was 3 yrs ago and I am still ticking, just a Timex watch.
I am not retired, but, with my cancers/recurring cancers, I am fully disabled. So, no, I don't work, at least not outside the house. I quilt, quilt, quilt and play on the computer.
Take care and know that you and your hubby are in my prayers. Sandy
Just wanted to add, I did have all the Doc's and nurses sign my bald head on my last day of chemo. Now that was a blast.