Tiffany, your quilt is gorgeous. I know how you feel.
My sister made a quilt for our cousin and half the time she puts the back up. At first it really upset her because of all the work she put into it. But at least it's only part of the time. My son thinks some of the purples are too violet (old lady he says) in the one I made him, so he put the back up which is a dark purple. I'm just happy he loves having the quilt.