I didn't use to be and now its an every day struggle. I struggled to let my son have a normal kids life. He was only 8 when his sister and cousin were murdered. I didn't want to let him out of my site. Hes almost 19 now (July5th) and its still hard. I don't know what I'll do when he moves out! I'm that way with the girls too, but for some reason worse with him. I always thought I was just paranoid for good reason. But thinking about it I worry about wayyyy too much!