I'm desperately in need of a haircut. I would like to update my "style" that I have worn for 40 years, but have no idea of what. I've talked with my hairdresser - but she's no stylist. Do you go to a stylist to get a "do" that fits your face and maybe age? Do you look at people around you and decide what you like and try that out on yourself? I'm 61 but I don't want to look it, neither do I want to look like I trying to be young again. Help!