Oh how I know that sew_southern! She has already talked some of them out of drinking on their off times. her faith absolutely floors me at times. I have to look at her and wonder how I raised her....messed up as I am! This past year she had been dating a young man and came to the decision that until her relationship with God was better she didn't need to have a boyfriend. I know she will come out of this stronger too and hopefully will be a good influence on someone else.