With no local LQS, all the quilt shops I go to are out of my easy visiting area so I'm an out-of-towner every time I shop. The one with the fabric selection where I found the most appeal seemed to be staffed by cold, stand-offish women. But, with few choices and good selection, I continued to darken their door. I have learned that sometimes it takes a bit of effort on the part of the customer to receive friendly service.
If I walk in and wander around I may or may not be approached, which can leave me with the impression of unfriendliness if I'm not. But, if I ask for help, it has always been given in spades. One time the owner ran home to bring in fabric from her stash for me because she thought it would be perfect for the quilt I was working on.
I can shop for discount fabric on my own, but won't get the expert help of an LQS. Classes, samples, quality and service are all reasons I hope the shops within driving distance stay open.