I so totally agree with you!!!! I, too, make quilts to be used! I had made a quilt for my brother and sister-in-law one year. She said that they would have to take it off the bed as the dog slept on their bed. I told them that I make quilts to be used and that they are thoroughly washable and if they feel the need to take it off, that I would take it back! I have made quilts for my grandchildren who drag them around wherever they go. I know that they are loved and that is what counts! I am shocked that she actually had the stupidity to say those things to you! I am glad you set her right! Maybe she will think before she yells at someone else! Take care!