Originally Posted by ckcowl
i know i should have been pushy
. Pushy is an interesting word. I would say 'assertive'.
Originally Posted by ckcowl
, i know that the incorrect cut is my own fault for not just being a B***** and pushing back when i was in the way...
.......... whoa! I am starting to worry now. Can you not see a space between standing up for yourself and being something that has asterisks in it?!!!!! Who is telling you you are 'in the way'. ? Yourself, maybe?
Originally Posted by ckcowl
i am not going to allow this incident to turn me into those rude pushy people who treat those around them poorly for their own benifit
. Ok now I have to say STOP. Read what you just wrote. It really sounds like you are all muddled up. Forget about the fabric- your issue seems to be that you think standing up for yourself is rude and that forgiving and forgetting is the morally superior option. Well, I disagree in this case.