Please don't blame yourself for being a victim! That's how the bad guys get away with so much and so often. Especially as women we always look at the ways that we could blame ourselves instead of blaming the person who did it to you. (Can you tell that in my real life I work with victims/survivors?) Whether you watched them cut or not, whether you pushed back or not, none of what happened to you should have happened to you.
Originally Posted by ckcowl
Originally Posted by noahscats7
Why after ur 1st 2 visits did you not pay attention as the fabric was being cut and ur purchase rang up? Cheat me once, shame on you. Cheat me twice, shame on me.
the visits were over a year apart and i had forgotten how bad it was, was looking forward to the sale...was caught up in the moment. i know i should have been pushy but i wasn't i was kind of 'herded' out of the way where the fabric was being cut (a temp table set up in the way of lots of fabric and i let myself be moved and just went to look at other things, i know that the incorrect cut is my own fault for not just being a B***** and pushing back when i was in the way...but that does not excuse them ringing up stuff that was not even on the paper, and i will never go back so will not have to worry about it again.
i accept my shame for allowing myself to be taken advantage of more than once in the same store...i have always tried to forgive and forget and move on almost always willing to give another chance. now there will be no more chances, but i am not going to allow this incident to turn me into those rude pushy people who treat those around them poorly for their own benifit