June was my first Secret Pal swap, and I still have not received anything (July 9). After several inquiries to our swap moderator, I learned that it is not a back-and-forth swap between the same pairs of people; rather, the one who has your name is not the one whose name you have. Do all of you newbies know that? I didn't. Once you get your swap partner's name, you can email and ask for more info. as I did; I just never heard anything.