Craftybear, I had no idea you and your DH were going through something like this. This must be one of the most difficult times for you. I always say that "Getting old ain't for sissies". I will be thinking of you and praying for you and your DH. I am thankful that you have friends and family for support, it is so important to take care of yourself at this time. I hope you and your DH get back home soon. You are truly missed.