I made a quilt for a friend that was diagnosed with cancer. Well another lady that volunteered with me asked When do I get mine? Umm never. I simply ignored her. I had the same problem with people in FL when I lived there. They liked the way I decorated so were asking me to decorate their houses. It got nuts. Shopping sewing etc. I finally started telling them I was going to start charging for my time. It dried up with a quickness. Guess I was ok when I was free but not when they had to pay.