Terri - the best place for oysters in VA Beach is Chick's - on the river by the bridge from Oceana. It's a beer, crab & oysters place that's been there forever. We loved it when our son was at Oceana in '90, & I met some people from VA Beach earlier this month, and it's still there, & it's their favorite, too. They pull up in their boat - IF there's room!