I thought it would be ok for my brother to stay at my house while he went through a bad time with his divorce. A brother I adored and trusted. Until I found out he stole from me, smoked pot with my son and told my family lies about my husband. That was the end. I cannot, with a clear mind, think that what he has done is alright. I will not support him, or talk to him again. He told lies to his own children to benefit himself. It's time for you to stop being an enabler. I won't, why should you?