Kathryn, I hope you recover steadily and fully. Along with the others who have responded to your message, I believe that your angelee and angel understand your situation and predicament and appreciate you being in the swap anyway. I personally don't think of this swap as a "get (or send) as much as you can" swap but an opportunity to let someone know you're thinking of her, to create a little surprise in her life and, I hope, to get to know her a bit better. To me, it's not how how extravagant the gifts can be that you send and that you may receive. It's the activity of reaching out. If circumstances interfere with how often this reaching out can be with notes, cards, etc., those good thoughts that are being sent are equally as welcome.