I work in a machine shop quality lab. We use LPS brand CFC Electro Contact cleaner. It comes in a spry can. It takes the sticky off all kinds of label residue. It is acutally used to clean electonic board and connectors of grease and oil, but works great on removing tapes and labels. The stuff is aso awsome that a partial can actully followed me home one day. I have gotten it on my clothing without any discoloring.
We get it from supply houses for machining, tooling, automotive, and such. Your hubby may know what I am talking about.
I would also be glad to get a bottle of Goo Gone and send it to you if you pm me your addy.
Sorry to hear about the kitty and quilt. I hope all turns out alright
Christine