In Ohio you can contact the county Council on Aging and they can help get you pointed in the right direction and provide contacts and resources. I don't know about your state, but they probably have something similar. It can be a psychological condition that needs to be dealt with by professionals (I'd like to believe I can save the world, but I can't!). Thanks for caring about this woman, so few people are that selfless these days. :-D You'll feel better too if you can get her some help :!: God Bless you.
Mary