Originally Posted by dunster
In this case I wouldn't buy her pattern at all, because she is acting dishonestly by claiming that you need her permission to sell items you make with it.
Please provide a resource for this fact as you state it. The artist/designer/writer of the pattern has every right to limit the commercial production of her work if she chooses to do so. She is not acting the least bit dishonestly, as you put it. I would like to see your source of information.