WOW! I am glad I had to vent! I had done searches here and other places with no real answers on the subject. seems we might be getting closer here.
I feel a lot the same as CHELE, I wanted to avoid any possible conflict with the designer.
My biggest problem is I was seeing an item for sale other places (NOT here) and no one gave credit to the designer.
I love all this feedback and conversation though. this is the best copyright post I think i've seen here. If you know of a better one, please share.
Thank you