Originally Posted by kwiltkrazy
I'll try to keep the oath, but my problem is I always think people are giving me compliments so my feelings won't get hurt. I know I am getting better all the time, and sometimes I even surprise myself.
I have one friend that always finds a flaw in my work, I know she is trying to help, but I wish she would look as close at her own work.
Just accept that the compliments are sincere and don't second guess them. Easier said than done, I know.
That's not very nice for your friend to do that. I would never, ever, point out the flaws in someone's work, would only give advice or help if it is asked for. Let her know that you would like her to not do that and hopefully she will respect that.