OK, I have just finished reading about an experiment on how others see us, and they had people dressed in T Shirts with silly messages on them and then they surveyed the crowd to see who had noticed them. No one had. We had to do our own experiment on this, and mine was to go shopping with out a bra. As soon as I get out of bed, those puppies are in a holder, as I was flat chested until pregnancy. How many people noticed me? No one. Forty minutes, wandering around without a bra and no one noticed!!!!!!!!!!!! We surveyed every person I went near, all the shop assistants, and not a one noticed. The lesson/message - most people don't notice what we do, unless we are rude or unpleasant. That was the other part of our experiment. I got noticed then.