I was divorced for 20 years before I meet my husband and I used to tease my frinds when they tried to find someone for me. I always told them I had a list of qualities that he must have before I would even consider getting serious again. 1. good sense of humor. 2. accept my children/grandchildren as if they were his. 3. didnt need to put a bag over his head when we went to bed at night. and 4. He must be able to support me in the lfestyle that I would like to be accustomed to. I got 3 out of 4 so who could ask for more that. Beside ye gads who wants more than one of them around sometimes even that one is more than i can handle.