My mum is 82 and suffering from a lot of strokes. I cant be with her all the time. She rang yesterday as my Aunty who is the youngest her Mum's family was having an operation and Mum was very upset. I rang my daughter who lives near the hospital andshe rang back to tell me it was for a herinea but would take 6+ hours in surgery. She also is not a well person, with cancer, being over weight, and her immune system way down, I half expect to go to 2 funerals soon. I HOPE NOT FOR A WHILE BUT---- never know.